So when our children bring home a potential mate that has cultural, racial, religious or other big differences then our child, our concerns immediately flare up. If not, it's better to find out now than to continue with something that isn't satisfying you. I volunteer every week, I put others before myself, etc.
This is not to say that I need to be the center of attention all the time, but just that I think all the time spent alone makes it more difficult to connect with each other. This is the type of doctrine that Joseph rejected and so have the leaders of the church. Thanks for pointing this stuff out.
Although most of our communication is through text. This guy was orbiting so strongly that he changed his religion before they were even dating. Just talk to her honestly, and if you have to, use the old wonder of logic. Response to your edit: Do NOT bring up or mention anything that could be considered "anti Mormon. We'll discuss further after the holiday and see where we end up. There are other occasions for humor, but these two are off the table. I decided to sort of play along because she was amazing and I didn't believe some of the things she was telling me she actually believed. While a part of me is sad about not having a temple marriage and getting sealed together I have hope that this could change while we are on this earth and I have faith in an ever-loving Father in Heaven who is kind and just and will be able to provide a way for my family to live together in the eternities. I can relate to this post.
I see a future with him but I'm not sure whether I can handle it. That doesn't get better unless you humble yourself, either -- admit you might be wrong. When out on a date with a Mormon guy or girl, be very decent, courteous, and well-mannered. Being independent is sexy to these men who endure grueling hours, tons of paperwork and politics AND operate.