If she is motivated enough to want to go on a mission, she will likely not settle for having a second class "eternal companion" you who is a convert or one who cannot be sealed to her for eternity. Now I try to put myself in his shoes and he has always had a problem standing firm in any decision so its hard for him to say no. We have been together for almost 6 years, so I'm well aware of what I got into, but it can still be tough. The LDS Church meets many of the criteria for cult behavior. I was born and raised in the LDS faith. When she had a strict 6: If there was a disagreement, one person was supposed to submit to the other, consult a rulebook that covered almost everything, or turn to a church leader to decide for them. Her attempts to convert you will get stronger and stronger, if you make it clear to her that you will not under any circumstances convert, she'll bounce. Even if you are looking towards marriage, it can be better to hold off on more serious activities until a couple of dates to make sure you both feel the relationship is moving in the right direction. Real love just happens. If she had to choose one issue to dedicate her life to, it would be gender equality.
Pray about it and follow your heart. Understand that it's their belief, and make plans for any of the other 6 days instead. God told me to marry my husband. But, if ever were there were a time to be overly cautious it's with this topic. Thank you so much for your comment. It's really somethi g to watch a person who is so self absorbed. He's emotionally threatening me to keep his infidelities a secret. By exactly how much ESPN gets watched in the course of a man-day. Dating is a tricky game. If only I knew.
The scenario where she refused to watch a possibly 'anti' documentary and wanted to watch church-sanctioned material sounds like a red flag. Mormonism is a big thing for those who follow the faith, so Sundays and the occasional event depending on how much she does extra might distract her. She is showing a common attitude of distrust for "anti-mormon" material. I wouldn't wish this shit on my enemy. He can relate to me and we can relate to each other which makes us strong to begin with. Your probably thinking of a sect of the Mormons, I'm sure there is one like that. A good place to go is to a museum, hiking, or to a park. I fully understand the fact that I need to do those things so I can accomplish my dream. And, as I was writing the reply, above, those thoughts went through my head. He also doesn't let me sleep in and stay there when he leaves for work.
You would think surrounded by kids and being off every day would not be lonely but never having anyone to share your kids achievements with in person is hard. And, as I was writing the reply, above, those thoughts went through my head. I have read half of all the comments and decided to skip the rest. If she was anything like me, that idea is probably foreign, radical, confusing, interesting, and inspiring to her.